The Causal Level of Partnership Blockages

What are family constellations, and how have they helped me personally to disentangle intergenerational blockages to a happy and evolving marriage?

Principles of Family Constellations / Orders of Love That Can Block Our Ability to Find and Sustain a Healthy, Evolving Partnership:

Early Interrupted Bond with the Mother (Resistance to Receiving):

The recovery of the natural ability to bond, which might have been compromised early in life.

Repetition of Bond Rupture in the First and Subsequent Significant Pair Bondings:

Especially in the case of first love, where unresolved pain or separation is often repeated unconsciously.

Identification with an Excluded, Wronged, Ostracized, or Misunderstood Family Member:

Taking on the fate or emotions of a family member who was not fully seen, acknowledged, or included.

Events in Previous Relationships:

Especially significant are experiences like abortions or miscarriages, which can unconsciously affect current dynamics. Concept of love at third sight. Love after a relationship has ended as important component of new love.

Relationship to Our Mother and Her Identity as a Woman/Sexual Being:

How we relate to our mother's femininity and sexual identity can deeply impact our own relationship patterns.

Identification with a Parent’s (Usually Opposite-Sex Parent’s) Previous Partner:

Unconscious loyalty or identification that may interfere with present relationships.

Conclusion:

The notion of partnership as being so-called loved at second sight.