Conversational Framework for Intentional Relating – RDBSMA

In the world of sacred intimacy, we often long for deep connection that feels both free and safe. Yet many of us hesitate to name our desires, boundaries, or emotional context before intimacy unfolds. This session introduces the RDBSMA framework—a practical, heart-centered structure that supports open, clear, and grounded conversations before sexual or sensual interaction.

Originating from conscious kink and adapted for more fluid relational spaces, RDBSMA stands for Relational Status, Desires, Boundaries, Sexual Health, Meaning Making, and Aftercare. It’s a conversation that and honors the complexity of our relational webs while making space for authentic desire. Whether you're preparing for a one-night experience or weaving into a new connection, RDBSMA helps reduce assumptions and deepen trust.

In this 1-hour session, you’ll first receive a clear breakdown of the six elements of RDBSMA, then be guided into partnered or small-group practice to explore each step in a safe and supported way. This is a chance to refine your language, listen deeply, and become more skillful in creating mutually empowered containers for erotic and emotional play. Expect real talk, embodied reflection, and a structure you can carry with you far beyond this workshop.