Don't Call It Chemistry: How Anxious Attachment Masquerades as Connection

Ever felt a magnetic spark with someone—only to find yourself spiraling into overthinking, insecurity, or emotional chaos days later?

In this eye-opening talk, Justine Baruch shines a light on one of the most misunderstood patterns in modern dating: how anxious attachment often disguises itself as irresistible “chemistry.” What feels like a soulful bond or thrilling connection can, in fact, be a nervous system flare—drawing us into old wounds rather than genuine intimacy.

This class is for anyone who’s tired of repeating the same painful dating cycles, attracting unavailable partners, or getting caught in the push-pull of anxious dynamics. Whether you’re dating online or offline, you’ll learn how to:

• Decode the difference between real connection and trauma bonding
• Spot your own attachment red flags before getting too entangled
• Understand how attraction is wired into your nervous system
• Self-regulate in moments of intensity, longing, or insecurity
• Shift from anxious chasing to empowered, grounded choosing
• Create connections rooted in mutuality, not emotional survival

This is your invitation to rewire the way you relate to attraction—and to start dating from a place of clarity, wholeness, and deep self-trust.

Let’s stop mistaking anxiety for love. Let’s learn to recognize true connection by how safe, seen, and centered we feel.